Tag Archives: relationship

How can i save love before its too late?

I’m a recent graduate from college and there is a girl with whom only accquainted – we were facebook friends if thats any indication, but never had any kind of one-on-one relationship. So I knew her, but not well. During my last semester, I realized that I liked her but sort of ran out of time to ask her out. I do know that one of my friends told her about my crush, but she never said anything to me about it, so I don’t know how she felt in return. My problem is that I still have feelings for her that don’t seem to be fading eventhough it is now 2 months after graduation. I’m not sure where she is anymore (I’m pretty sure she lives in my state but probably like 2-3 hours away). I do have her email address. I want to tell her how i feel, but I don’t know how to put it into an email without making it sound desperate and stalker-ish. Any suggestions would be great.

Letting a lost love go.?

Here’s my situation. I recently graduated from college and can’t get this girl off my mind. I only realized I had feelings for her towards the middle of my last semester at school and because of that and my shyness, I never asked her out. We knew each other as accquaintences – we shared a lot of the same friends – but didn’t have a real significant one-on-one relationship. If we passed on the way to class, we’d say hi, and we’d talk when we were hanging out with our mutual friends, but never anything one-on-one. I can’t get her off my mind now but am wondering what the best way to let her know would be. I don’t know where she is now, but she does still have an active facebook account. Should I use that? Should I even let her know?

How do I tell this random hookup that I’m not interested?

I just got out of a long term relationship and I drunkenly(yes I know, bad things tend to happen at these times) kissed this girl that I know but we’re not really friends. I know I’m gonna have to see her eventually anyways and it’s nothing against her personally its just that I just got out of a relationship and I’m not really looking for anything right now. She just poked me on facebook and its like awkward. I crazy regret it, I always do with random hookups. ahhhh what do I do

How do I start a conversation wih my x-boyfriend?

Our relationship ended very suddenly. It was a long distance realtionship and trust was our only issue. He was of a best friend than anything and I just want that type of relationship back. I’ve seen him on a widespread website called Facebook (familiar with it). Well anyways he’s on there with some chick either an x or present girl. So I dont want him back, I just want my friend back! OH AND WERE BOTH COLLEGE HOOPERS.

My fiance is writing sexual e-mail to OTHER women what do I do?

In the past I have found (by going in his e-mail) that my boyfriend has answered ads on craigslist (we were looking for a roommate) to scammers in a sexual tone to scare them off. I approached him and he explained it to me as innocint, then we had to discuss the subject of me going in his e-mail. Since then, I haven’t – we’re not engaged. Something came over me and I went in his e-mail again. Now I found him answering a sexual craigslist ad and talking back and forth a few times. He even sent a picture of himself. It really makes me think about our relationship. But I don’t know how to bring it up to him since I only know of this because I read it in his personal e-mail that I “broke into”. I know looking into his e-mail was not right and very untrusting, but I don’t think that my fiance should be talking with some woman about offering “services” or hooking up and sending pictures of himself. I don’t know how to approach him on this… or even should I? Any suggestions?

How do you build trust back in a relationship after one of you cheats?

I recently found out that my partner (we are a m-f couple) cheated on me. We have been dating just over 1 year. The cheating started 7-8 months ago. I only had suspicion before, but found evidence that confirmed my “other half” had met someone on Craigslist, took intimate pictures, & then had an email message with them on it. When confronted, I did not give “details”, but instead stated my other had to “come clean, be 100% truthful and honest” because I would not SAY what I had discovered. I said that if they did not become truthful about the thing I had found, we would be over. After some “back and forth”, it was revealed they had cheated with me with 9 people of the opposite sex & 2 of the same sex. They swear that it was “just a mistake” & will not ever do it again. Through discussion, it was revealed they had been faithful in only a few relationships. I love them & we had been planning marriage & babies throughout the entire cheating time. I can forgive it once. But how to trust?

If my new girlfriend agrees to an exclusive relationship, should that include no ‘searches’ on dating sites?

I began dating in June (after a long time off the scene) and met several wonderful women, then I found someone special. Before we started sleeping together, we agreed to an exclusive relationship. The connection has been powerful and fast but we both feel this might lead to a LTR. Today, I was using her computer to check my email and local news when the ‘auto type’ feature of her web browser showed me something upsetting: she’s recently browsed M4W postings on Craigslist, about a half dozen. My first impulse is to be straightforward and ask her about it. I know she will probably say I was snooping, but that would just be a distraction from the real issue. If she is bored or unsatisfied, or some other needs are going unspoken or unmet, I want to know. I see this as an opportunity to resolve any doubts. Am I being paranoid? Is it none of my business? Or should I face this head on and not stick my head in the sand? I’d appreciate feedback from women, 40+.

Relationship troubles…?

My boyfriend of one year and 2 months just broke up with me because he told me not to talk to this guy 8 months ago and i just messaged him on facebook and he told my boyfriend. me and this guy dont have anything going on and are just friends, if that.
Do you think he overreacted?? The guy said something like he is good for me or something like that in the msg and i guess he sent it to my boyfriend like that. Shouldnt my boyfriend be mad at him and not me..? he said i have pushed him to the edge. i want him back so bad, i love him. :’[ help me.

And what can i do to not think of him.
I dont have like any friends that i hang with out of school because i was always with him. I dont know what to do. My mom has to take me to school tomorrow because i havent gotten my liscence yet and im 17. wow.

Is he interested or not?

I go to school with this guy, and we have been flirting for about a month now. Him and his ex gf broke up about 3 months ago from a 1.5 relationship.. So i finally decided that I was going to send him a message on facebook, telling him that I like him, even though im sure he had a pretty good idea. Hes not a big computer guy, so i figured it would take him a day or 2 to respond, well its been almost 3 days, and i just im-ed him and he said nothing about it. Im pretty sure that he has read it, so y hasnt he responded?! I really felt like all of our conversations were going well, he was always flirting with me, so i just dont understand….

FACEBOOK question ——————————-?

How do you make a relationship story on Facebook?!
You know… for their new newsfeed…

EXAMPLE:
Bob and Melissa have made plans and decided to make their relationship permanent. They’re getting married.

How do they make an announcement like that?
I can’t figure out how to make a RELATIONSHIP STORY.
They have event stories… group stories… wall post stories…

THAAAANKS.