Tag Archives: personality

Why does it seem like nobody likes me?

Posted on July 30, 2011 by admin| 8 Comments

I’ve been told i have an awesome personality and stuff but i dont have very many friends. only like 3. Im 18, work full time, and currently taking one class in college at night cuz i gotta work (im gonna take more classes next semster but all at night). im not ugly and have good clothing style and such. im nice to everyone and i love making people happy. (but i am annoyingly Mature for my age–like a 30yr old stuck in an 18 yr old body.) but how come it seems like people still dont like me? like when i was in high school, i joined clubs and played soccer and even then it didnt seem like anyone wanted to be my friend. they barely spoke to me. i was always by myself and last to get a partner. even now, i dont have much a social life at all. i see all my college classmates having a blast and for godsake, have comments on their facebook/myspace from more than 5 different people! i will talk to people but then they treat me like im some sort of loser or something. whats the deal?
And with the friends I have, there’s only one girl (we’ve been friends since we were 12). Guys are cool and all but they have that deal where “they wanna be more” or i cant meet a potential date because i’m with my guy friends. I wanna be friends with GIRLS! how can i do that? girls are the ones that seem to be so mean or hostile towards me and im not sure why.

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How do I get into voiceover?

Posted on February 10, 2011 by admin| 2 Comments

I’m a reasonably succesful public radio personality, and I live in the Bay Area, but I don’t have an agent or manager. I’ve done one or two things I found on craigslist, but how do I get regular work?

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Tagged Agent, Bay Area, Craigslist, manager, personality, public radio, radio, radio personality, voiceover, work

Do lesbians/bi women only like thin women?

Posted on July 15, 2010 by admin| 18 Comments

How many lesbians or bisexual women are out there that like big, beautiful women? I’ve known most gay women (especially on craigslist) prefer thin women or girls that are not overweight. What happened to the love for BBW? I’m an overweight queer woman with a good personality and cool traits, but often get overlooked because of my size.

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Tagged "queer, bbw, big beautiful women, bisexual, bisexual women, Craigslist, gay women, girls, good personality, lesbians, Love, overweight, personality, size, thin women, woman

Is this a good idea or not?

Posted on June 26, 2010 by admin| 7 Comments

I think I’m just going to give up on making friends in high school. ‘m a senior and will be out in 5 months. It’s hard for me because of my depression, social anxiety disorder, avoidant personality disorder, and just hating myself in general. Sometimes I really want to be friends with them, other times I just get so frustrated with myself I don’t even try and just keep to myself. They like me enough as an acquaintance I guess, I’m nice to them, and I think I’m going to get them all little christmas and birthday presents. It’s like I guess I know they like me enough but I can’t convince myself of that or go talk to them, and I worry that that has hurt my chances because they think I’m not interested but I’m just shy. I had facebook (myspace) for a while to keep in touch and talk to them a little more but I couldn’t take the stress and got rid of it and now I’ve lost that connection and possibly upset them. But I just cant approach people.

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Tagged 5 months, acquaintance, anxiety, avoidant, christmas, Depression, disorder, General", IDEA, Myspace, personality, personality disorder, school, social anxiety disorder, Stress, Talk

Should I keep trying or just give it up?

Posted on June 25, 2010 by admin| 15 Comments

Should I give up on trying to make new friends in high school at this point? I’m a senior and will be out in 5 months. It’s hard for me because of my depression, social anxiety disorder, avoidant personality disorder, and just hating myself in general. Sometimes I really want to be friends with them, other times I just get so frustrated with myself I don’t even try and just keep to myself. They like me enough as an acquaintance I guess, I’m nice to them, and I think I’m going to get them all little christmas and birthday presents. It’s like I guess I know they like me enough but I can’t convince myself of that or go talk to them, and I worry that that has hurt my chances because they think I’m not interested but I’m just shy. I had facebook (myspace) for a while to keep in touch and talk to them a little more but I couldn’t take the stress and got rid of it and now I’ve lost that connection and possibly upset them. But I just cant approach people

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Should I just give up?

Posted on June 24, 2010 by admin| 10 Comments

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Would this bother you? Girls, guys weigh in also if you want.?

Posted on June 1, 2010 by admin| 8 Comments

I have a great boyfriend. We live in different cities 100 miles apart. We get on very well except one thing, he has a female friend that I don’t care for. She is always all over his myspace and on his birthday she threw him a birthday party and the next day posts pictures of herself kissing his face (which he insists is innocent and “friendly”.) I was upset because I felt that had I been there (it was on a weeknight and I work fulltime) she wouldn’t have dared. He claims that’s “just her personality” and that she didn’t mean anything by it.

I am also concered that she dated her best friend’s boyfriend for months behind her back.

I am now not even allow to say anything about her. He gets upset and tells me I have to “get over it”. But I feel like I have a right to feel uncomfortble. He has already told me he will not stop seeing her. It drives me crazy to see the party pictures the next day.I know he would never cheat on me so I am not worried about that. Help me!
She kissed his face, he did not kiss her.
We have know each other for 8 years and been together for a little less than 1 year. I moved for work, he will be moving here soon.

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Tagged birthday, birthday party, boyfriend, Day, face, female friend, friend, girls, Myspace, party, personality, thing, weeknight