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Why does it seem like nobody likes me?

I’ve been told i have an awesome personality and stuff but i dont have very many friends. only like 3. Im 18, work full time, and currently taking one class in college at night cuz i gotta work (im gonna take more classes next semster but all at night). im not ugly and have good clothing style and such. im nice to everyone and i love making people happy. (but i am annoyingly Mature for my age–like a 30yr old stuck in an 18 yr old body.) but how come it seems like people still dont like me? like when i was in high school, i joined clubs and played soccer and even then it didnt seem like anyone wanted to be my friend. they barely spoke to me. i was always by myself and last to get a partner. even now, i dont have much a social life at all. i see all my college classmates having a blast and for godsake, have comments on their facebook/myspace from more than 5 different people! i will talk to people but then they treat me like im some sort of loser or something. whats the deal?
And with the friends I have, there’s only one girl (we’ve been friends since we were 12). Guys are cool and all but they have that deal where “they wanna be more” or i cant meet a potential date because i’m with my guy friends. I wanna be friends with GIRLS! how can i do that? girls are the ones that seem to be so mean or hostile towards me and im not sure why.

How do I get a girl to talk to me?

I went on a cruise in the summer and met this awesome girl who i discovered only lives about an hour away from me. We hung out a lot those few days on the cruise and spent almost the whole time together. I felt like we both liked each other and things were going good. After we got back, i kept talking to her on the phone for about a week. We met up and went to the movies the next friday night and had a good time. A couple days later she kinda breaks up with me over the internet and says she’s starting to go out with a guy that she goes to high school with. Ever since then she won’t return any of my calls/messages or even add me as a friend on facebook. I still cannot get her off my mind. I really like her a lot even though she prolly thinks i’m a loser. She means so much to me and she wont even talk to me. it’s been around 5 months since then and i guess i’m even more desperate for her. I don’t know how to get over her. what should i do? ages 16-17. PLZ help!!!

Am I a loser because I didn’t go away to college?

It seems like everyone in my class went away somewhere except me. i go to the community college. I don’t know what I want to do, and I never liked the idea of dorming. I’m not a big drinker and I think it would just be a bad match. Usually it doesn’t bother me that I didn’t go away, but I was just browsing facebook and saw that tons of my classmates are in big universities..
I don’t think I’m missing out on any “experience”. I don’t need a big university or a lot of debt to meet new people. I just don’t think that way.. I’m a big traveller (I own 2 planes) so if I wanna meet new people and get away from my hometown, I can do that at any time of the day.

Why does it seem like nobody likes me?

I’ve been told i have an awesome personality and stuff but i dont have very many friends. only like 3. Im 18, work full time, and currently taking one class in college at night cuz i gotta work (im gonna take more classes next semster but all at night). im not ugly and have good clothing style and such. im nice to everyone and i love making people happy. (but i am annoyingly Mature for my age–like a 30yr old stuck in an 18 yr old body.) but how come it seems like people still dont like me? like when i was in high school, i joined clubs and played soccer and even then it didnt seem like anyone wanted to be my friend. they barely spoke to me. i was always by myself and last to get a partner. even now, i dont have much a social life at all. i see all my college classmates having a blast and for godsake, have comments on their facebook/myspace from more than 5 different people! i will talk to people but then they treat me like im some sort of loser or something. whats the deal?
And with the friends I have, there’s only one girl (we’ve been friends since we were 12). Guys are cool and all but they have that deal where “they wanna be more” or i cant meet a potential date because i’m with my guy friends. I wanna be friends with GIRLS! how can i do that? girls are the ones that seem to be so mean or hostile towards me and im not sure why.