I am in college. I have a class with this girl I have had my eye on for a few weeks now.
We’ve met up once already at a coffeehouse where we talked for a little over an hour – the basics were covered (favorites, interests, etc).
She really seems to respond more to things I ask/tell her over Facebook – moreso than in-person.
The problem I have is this: she is really quiet! She will answer questions I ask her, and respond to conversation I initiate, but she will not ask me any questions, and she never starts up a conversation with me!!!
How can I get her to feel more comfortable around me and willing to let her guard down/be more talkative?
Thanks in advance for your input!
Would I be better off to avoid talking to her in person for a few days, or keep trying to initiate different conversations?
I am afraid that by “ignoring” her for a few days, that she will think I am no longer interested in her, and that she will lose interest in me, or that she will just lose interest in me completely regardless of what the reason may be.
Does her not talking to me mean that she is no longer interested in me, and that she is too afraid to tell me outright, or am I overthinking this matter too much?
I just wish I knew where I stand with this girl!!!