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If she tells a guy that we’re not going out, and we are, what should I do?

Posted on July 7, 2010 by admin| 24 Comments

She told a guy at work that she wasn’t going out with me, but in real life my girlfriend and I were going out for more than two years. We had a fight about it already. She told me that she liked him and thought she was flirting with him. Now, I think she’s talking to him behind my back. What’s really hard is that I don’t know if she’s lying or not. She asks for my forgiveness and stuff, but she is still “friends” with him on facebook and still has his sn on AIM. I don’t care about it before because they work with each other but she told him that me and her aren’t going out. I love her with all my heart and I really can’t let her go. We been through a lot of good and bad times, but is she changing? She have done this before with another guy. One thing, she gets mad at me when I get mad about the situation. What’s up with that? I need some advice, info, anything!! Tell me what’s on your mind… please have a lot of people to comment this so I can take a right course of action.
Okay more details… I gave her flowers, kisses, hugs, telling her that I love her and stuff… whenever the guy comes into the conversation (about what’s going on) she gets mad and threatens to leave me and never talk to me again… she told me that she hates it when someone is mad at her especially at work. I’ve done everything to get her totally (completely) on my side. But I don’t know what to do… I want to keep this relationship because she a great person who helps me when i’m in need… now I’m thinking that college is getting in the way and she’s getting sick of me… I truly love her so much… it’s going to hurt me… Whenever I get hurt she gets mad at me for being “dopey” or whatever.

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People who use myspace or facebook?

Posted on June 30, 2010 by admin| 5 Comments

You think it’s a bad idea to add someone as a friend and not add their girlfriend/boyfriend, right? Even if you don’t know the girlfriend/boyfriend? Then just don’t add the person?

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Can I have a serious response to this guy’s actions please!?

Posted on June 26, 2010 by admin| 13 Comments

I have been talking to this guy since the summer.He became my boyfriend in the summer time. He was from California and i’m from Jersey.We broke up after I found out he had a girlfriend and had her pictures posted all over his myspace from someone at our school. We kept in contact during the summer. He was single when school started again, so we started getting CLOSE again. Then I found out he had another girlfriend! And he was messing with me too. I had got pregnant and shortly after had a miscarriage.His girlfriend found out and they broke up. He didn’t talk to me for awhile, then he came back. I think he is only using me for intimacy and i’m being a dummy. Because I saw him and his ex going out again! He said she buys him stuff, but I told him they wouldn’t be close or talking if he didn’t have feelings for her. And when he is with her, he ignores me, so now, its the break. I’m in NJ and he’s in CA. I checked his facebook and it says “married”! What should i do? He wants to be my bf

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If my new girlfriend agrees to an exclusive relationship, should that include no ‘searches’ on dating sites?

Posted on June 23, 2010 by admin| 8 Comments

I began dating in June (after a long time off the scene) and met several wonderful women, then I found someone special. Before we started sleeping together, we agreed to an exclusive relationship. The connection has been powerful and fast but we both feel this might lead to a LTR. Today, I was using her computer to check my email and local news when the ‘auto type’ feature of her web browser showed me something upsetting: she’s recently browsed M4W postings on Craigslist, about a half dozen. My first impulse is to be straightforward and ask her about it. I know she will probably say I was snooping, but that would just be a distraction from the real issue. If she is bored or unsatisfied, or some other needs are going unspoken or unmet, I want to know. I see this as an opportunity to resolve any doubts. Am I being paranoid? Is it none of my business? Or should I face this head on and not stick my head in the sand? I’d appreciate feedback from women, 40+.

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How should I deal with a girlfriend that get’s jealous and questions me everytime I talk to another girl?

Posted on June 7, 2010 by admin| 4 Comments

The thing is she’s been cheated on in the past. I’ve tried to tell her that I’m not those guys. At parties if my attention isn’t it has to be all about her. If I talk to a girl that’s not her friend more then saying hello, she gets flustered. I’ll leave friends and her messages on facebook and myspace, but nothing more then what a friend would say. We’ll get together at night and she’ll be like what was that about? I’m like are you serious? Why don’t you trust me? Her response is, “Well if I’m worried about something I think you should tell me, because it’s better for me to know then to not know and make my own conclusion.” Thanks for any advice.
We’ve been together 14 months and we are both 21.

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Am I remotely good looking?

Posted on May 30, 2010 by admin| 12 Comments

I dunno. I’ve been doubtful for awhile. Never had a girlfriend, so I figured I’d ask. If you have facebook, you can request to add me as a friend so you can see my profile. Pleaseeeeee.

Facebook Link: http://norwich.facebook.com/profile.php?id=70002150

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i need help GIRLS ONLY?

Posted on May 10, 2010 by admin| 9 Comments

i know this girl from korea, when we met each other she was nice to me as if she was my girlfriend. when i ask her to the movie she said yea lets go blah blah balh and after the movie she was like lets to this often and siad if you have time plz call me ill show you movie. and stuff but now she seems like she doesnt like me at all
when i write comments on her wall on facebook, she replys to every other comments but mine. and when she reply it seem cold like if she doesnt like me at all

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Where can I get 2 non-bleacher Boston Red Sox tickets for under $80 (for both)?

Posted on March 28, 2010 by admin| 10 Comments

I’ve checked out craigslist and stubhub. I can’t try to scalpers because I need to tickets before game day. Where can I turn? I want to get these as a gift to my roommate and his girlfriend for sometime in July or Aug. Thanks.

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How Can I Tell If The Girl I Am Dating Wants TO Be Boyfriend/Girlfriend?

Posted on March 24, 2010 by admin| 4 Comments

So I am dating this girl. Things Are going great….however, i can not tell if she wants to go to exclusive dating. I saw this comment on her myspace page from some guy about her nipples…i mean, i trust her and all…i just do not know if i am just simply someone for her to hang out with or if the feelings that she shows me are real…

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Is he still attracted to me?

Posted on March 2, 2010 by admin| 3 Comments

This is a weird story, but last year I lived in the dorms. I was studying in the study room once when a guy who lived on that floor started looking at me through the window. Then, he walked on. Then another night he came in, while semi-inebriated, and told me he thought I was beautiful. Then he asked me out to dinner, but he told me he had a girlfriend and was not a cheater. Then he asked me about my ethnicity–I’m mixed–and told me not to be self-conscious when I smile. Then he gave me a box of cookies he had won in a drinking contest at a fraternity. He ended the convo by saying that he’d come to my dorm room to take me out to eat the next evening. The next evening I had gone to a concert, and I came back and met him once by chance. He told me he had tried to find me on facebook but couldn’t. I told him I had shortened my surname so he couldn’t find me and then I added him on facebook.
The summer passes and now we are in a new semester.

He and I are taking the same class, yet he always sits with his athlete friends. (He’s an athlete.) Today we happened to make eye contact and he pretended to not have seen me before then, even though he sat only a seat ahead of me and was going to sit next to me. (His friend was reserving the seats though. )

We had very awkward conversation….

So question is, after all this time, and the fact that we’re not really friends, is he still attracted to me?
Basically during the convo he was standing next to his athlete buddies and then said “Oh hey! How do you like the class so far?” I replied “it’s good” and then looked away.

His athlete friends generally make me uncomfortable…

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