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How Can I be So DUMB twice?

Posted on May 26, 2011 by admin| 9 Comments

Okay August my guy friend left for his first year of college. OK he and I have been friends for 7 years and in May we started getting a little serious. (sex and couple stuff) But never made it official. Okay so he left and didn’t call me for like a week, he finally called me for the first time(a friday) we talked and that was that. That next week he called me on a Wed. So I was starting to see a pattern but he didn’t call me again for like another week and that time he called my job. In September he only called me once out of that month so during it I was planning my get over him plan and at least I kind of thought it was working. So still no word from him for a whole month and the last day of Sept. he calls me. And of course all my feelings come flooding back ino my heart and honestly they never left. Now I have three other ways of contacting him but I figure why bother. 1 way is facebook which he was just on and I sent him a message and when I clicked back over he got off. Wat to do?

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How Can I be So DUMB twice?

Posted on May 26, 2011 by admin| Leave a comment

Okay August my guy friend left for his first year of college. OK he and I have been friends for 7 years and in May we started getting a little serious. (sex and couple stuff) But never made it official. Okay so he left and didn’t call me for like a week, he finally called me for the first time(a friday) we talked and that was that. That next week he called me on a Wed. So I was starting to see a pattern but he didn’t call me again for like another week and that time he called my job. In September he only called me once out of that month so during it I was planning my get over him plan and at least I kind of thought it was working. So still no word from him for a whole month and the last day of Sept. he calls me. And of course all my feelings come flooding back ino my heart and honestly they never left. Now I have three other ways of contacting him but I figure why bother. 1 way is facebook which he was just on and I sent him a message and when I clicked back over he got off. Wat to do?

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If a guy is going out with you for a long time and than says you look good to other girls what does that mean?

Posted on April 27, 2011 by admin| 2 Comments

I have a bf and i been with him for 2 yrs and a half about to be 7 months but he has a facebook and my best friend told me to go on hers and i seen that he was writting to his EX that he misses her and that she looks good also.. and than i seen her wrote to two other girls that go to our school!! I need help!! I wanna break up with him!! I started to lose feelings.. for him he went to greece in the summer cause he went to see his family. I know he hasn’t cheated on me.. I know that for a fact.. but what should i dO?? he’s been texting me all night and i haven’t answered.. and now hes like shitting bricks.. excuse my lang.. LMAO.. but yeah.. what should i do?? I mean i love him but i cant deal with it.. besides he’s controlling and jealous… what should i do?? Email me!! please.. need some other peoples opinion!! Thanks a lot!!! MWAS!!

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i need your opinion ;; serious.?

Posted on March 23, 2011 by admin| 14 Comments

well, awhile ago i had to get rid of my rabbit (which i think i changed my mind and want to keep it) and i had put up an ad on Craigslist. And you know i told them a little bit about my rabbit. He hasnt been to the vet in 4-5 years, (hes almost 6) and i got told i needed to ‘go die’ and ‘jump off a cliff’, because of that. And it really hurt my feelings, i LOVE my bunny to DEATH. i love ALL animals. come on! i cry every time i watch animal precinct. He had a checkup when i first got him, and i never took him back because he was always healthy, and i didnt want to neuter him because i thought eventually i was going to breed him. hes healthy and i may not alot of time for him sometimes but i DO NOT and NEVER WILL neglect ANY animal. I take him out for 30-mins. to and hour about every other day, i give him treats, talk to him, pet him. hes my BESTFRIEND.

so i guess my question is ..do you really think im a bad person for not taking him to the vet? serious answers only please.

thanks
yes i take him on walks :]
he has a harness and leash.
he loves them.
i also have a Pekingnese, which i take him to the vet regularly.

so i dont just not take my animals to a vet.

people can be so cruel sometimes.
i watch out for scratches or mood changes.
alot of people are saying that i shouldnt worry.

but im probably the most EMOTIONAL person you’ll ever meet. im the type of person who cares about what every one thinks, and cant stand when people say crap out of their butts.

thanks for all your answers,
i appriciate them all.

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How can i save love before its too late?

Posted on March 11, 2011 by admin| 4 Comments

I’m a recent graduate from college and there is a girl with whom only accquainted – we were facebook friends if thats any indication, but never had any kind of one-on-one relationship. So I knew her, but not well. During my last semester, I realized that I liked her but sort of ran out of time to ask her out. I do know that one of my friends told her about my crush, but she never said anything to me about it, so I don’t know how she felt in return. My problem is that I still have feelings for her that don’t seem to be fading eventhough it is now 2 months after graduation. I’m not sure where she is anymore (I’m pretty sure she lives in my state but probably like 2-3 hours away). I do have her email address. I want to tell her how i feel, but I don’t know how to put it into an email without making it sound desperate and stalker-ish. Any suggestions would be great.

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Letting a lost love go.?

Posted on March 10, 2011 by admin| 3 Comments

Here’s my situation. I recently graduated from college and can’t get this girl off my mind. I only realized I had feelings for her towards the middle of my last semester at school and because of that and my shyness, I never asked her out. We knew each other as accquaintences – we shared a lot of the same friends – but didn’t have a real significant one-on-one relationship. If we passed on the way to class, we’d say hi, and we’d talk when we were hanging out with our mutual friends, but never anything one-on-one. I can’t get her off my mind now but am wondering what the best way to let her know would be. I don’t know where she is now, but she does still have an active facebook account. Should I use that? Should I even let her know?

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How do I get over her…..a very interesting story?

Posted on March 4, 2011 by admin| 3 Comments

I knew a girl in college almost five years ago. The sad thing is that I never built up the courage to speak to her through my 3 yrs of college with her(she is a year younger). The last 3 weeks of my final semester I sent her an email. She probably did not know who I was, but our school is small and I am sure she has seen me before. The email contained some of my feelings for he and asked if I could speak to her for 5 min. No response. It was a sad and agonizing time. I could not email her again. Almost a year later, I asked her to be friends with me on facebook. She accepted, and I sent her a simple message explaining that I would like to “start a frsh page.” No response. So, I decided to send her an email, saying that I wished she would just let me know if she is recieving me messages. She emailed me back saying sorry and she is not comfortable speaking with me over the net. I decieded to write her a final, serious email where I layed out every thing in my heart. This was a year ago..
I still have not recieved a message or email from her. We are merely facebook friends….and I have, so so many times, to write her, but hold myself back. I just keep holding onto the hope that we will end up together. I can understand how this may seem pathetic…but I really cant control my fellings…I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO…if someone has any suggestions or can help, I will appreciate it very much. One more thing…..she now lives 2000 miles away.
Thanks all for your replies….shadechick, your reply was interesting. The thing is, I wish I could speak to her in person. I personally didnot like telling her my feelings over the internet. I would prefered to tell her in person. But I had no other option. Specially now….you cant image how much I dream that we can actually meet an talk. She lives on the west coast and I live in the east coast…..I have continuously thought about asking her if she is willing to have a small date with me…but after all me attempts, I dont know if its reasonable. I still have such strong feelings for her. I worst thing is, I cant imagine any other girl in my life. I am 24 yrs old and I am in med school…this has taken so much of my life. I WOULD BE INTERESTED IN SUGGESTIONS FROM FEMALES THAT CAN MAYBE UNDERSTAND WHAT THIS GIRL MAYBE THINKING.

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Should I delete a friend off Facebook because my boyfriend says so?

Posted on February 2, 2011 by admin| 16 Comments

This guy and I have been (somewhat I guess) friends for a few years. At one time we had more than just a friendship, but weren’t dating. Some how my boyfriend knows about this and he absolutely hates any guy that I’ve ever liked/dated/”hung out” with. He doesn’t care about talking to me ex of 4 years because he says “at least he cared for you” (my ex is also not that attractive). This guy and many other guys that I dated-or whatever-between boyfriends, are what you could call “cookie cutters”. They are tall, dark, handsome blah blah. But I have no feelings for any other guy!

Is he being over possessive for asking me to take him off my friends list?

*Facebook is very similar to Myspace for those of you who don’t know.
I’m thinking it’s a jealousy issue, but I’m not sure.

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Dealing with a girl you have feelings with?

Posted on January 15, 2011 by admin| 6 Comments

Okay, this girl and basically just got high in the woods four times, had a lot of fun and good talks one time there was like a halo over our shadow which turned out to be the moon. I said maybe nature’s trying to tell us something she told me she was bound to be lonely for her life b/c her parents are divorced,she said it was genetic. I’m in a similar situation (parents divorced two years before I was born)
She called me the first day she got back and we had a pretty good time at a free concert, she met some friends there and I lost the keys to my car so she sort of ditched me. I called her a couple of time during the semester but she always said she was busy (she was exagerating) and I didn’t want to beg her for her time. I got pissed off 8 weeks and defriended her on facebook. Only after that did she actually act friendly when I saw her but I was still pissed off.

I didn’t talk to her for a while but now we say hi, should I go for her now?
I’m 21… also she has rejected my friendship requests on facebook. I was pretty upset when I saw her grinding with some guy at a party and wished I wasn’t because I don’t want to be attached to her.

I think I should probably find somebody else, but I still have a few feelings for her. She has been one of the only girls that I’ve had fun meaningful conversations with though.

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