this girl i like and i had a conversation where we established we’d just be friends bc we are both in complicated situations with other people. at the end of it, she had tears in her eyes. a few days later, she sent me poetry. she said it wasn’t directly about me but i think the words dictate they were: for instance, she told me she has to be loyal and i agreed but her poem said; “All night we talk of morals, In the morning we don’t know what’s good but in his eyes, the colors are free Of my imposing purpose to devour reality.” i told her that we had a connection, which to me was almost surreal. her poetry said “Reality is too two-dimensional to become the inhibited form of our Mere disguise or desire.” and other words in the poem referred to the talk we had. she is REALLY shy in real life and i always feel like she is holding something back but i can’t tell if it’s that she likes me or not. i know she likes to communiciate through writing. she also changed her facebook message to say she was decompartimentilizing, which means taking things out of categories, maybe people out of categories, i don’t know. i am too shy to ask her about the meaning of these words as i feel we’ve established that we are just friends, even though i want her badly. what should i do??
>” Then we continued with our trivial conversation never once touching the subject again. I just met the guy online on Facebook after not seeing or hearing from him for 13 years. He came back home for three days and I got to see him for an hour. Note that its only been a week and half since we got back in touch. I don’t know what I am looking for here. I mean I like him, but right now as a friend. But lets says I wanted more… did I just ruin my chances? Boy, do I let my curiocity get the best of me!
I am 17 and i am working with a college student who is 19 i’d like to get to know him better, what should i do
I am currently working on a project with a few college students, one of which i’ve had a crush on for awhile now. The problem is that we only talked twice and i am too shy to ever initiate the conversation. He has a facebook and so do I. I added him as my friend and left a witty comment to which he responded. I would like to get to know him better and go out for coffee with him. The problem is that i want to be very nonchalant about it, and i don’t want him to think that i am I like him. I want to ask him to hang out but i am afraid that he might not be interested and that it would ruin our work relationship and make things awkward for the rest of the group. I think he is highly intelligent and i would really like to pursue a friendship with him. What do I do?
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