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LADIES – Your input would be greatly appreciated!?

Posted on June 1, 2011 by admin| 14 Comments

I am in college. I have a class with this girl I have had my eye on for a few weeks now.

We’ve met up once already at a coffeehouse where we talked for a little over an hour – the basics were covered (favorites, interests, etc).

She really seems to respond more to things I ask/tell her over Facebook – moreso than in-person.

The problem I have is this: she is really quiet! She will answer questions I ask her, and respond to conversation I initiate, but she will not ask me any questions, and she never starts up a conversation with me!!!

How can I get her to feel more comfortable around me and willing to let her guard down/be more talkative?

Thanks in advance for your input!
Would I be better off to avoid talking to her in person for a few days, or keep trying to initiate different conversations?

I am afraid that by “ignoring” her for a few days, that she will think I am no longer interested in her, and that she will lose interest in me, or that she will just lose interest in me completely regardless of what the reason may be.

Does her not talking to me mean that she is no longer interested in me, and that she is too afraid to tell me outright, or am I overthinking this matter too much?

I just wish I knew where I stand with this girl!!!

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How Can I be So DUMB twice?

Posted on May 26, 2011 by admin| 9 Comments

Okay August my guy friend left for his first year of college. OK he and I have been friends for 7 years and in May we started getting a little serious. (sex and couple stuff) But never made it official. Okay so he left and didn’t call me for like a week, he finally called me for the first time(a friday) we talked and that was that. That next week he called me on a Wed. So I was starting to see a pattern but he didn’t call me again for like another week and that time he called my job. In September he only called me once out of that month so during it I was planning my get over him plan and at least I kind of thought it was working. So still no word from him for a whole month and the last day of Sept. he calls me. And of course all my feelings come flooding back ino my heart and honestly they never left. Now I have three other ways of contacting him but I figure why bother. 1 way is facebook which he was just on and I sent him a message and when I clicked back over he got off. Wat to do?

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How Can I be So DUMB twice?

Posted on May 26, 2011 by admin| Leave a comment

Okay August my guy friend left for his first year of college. OK he and I have been friends for 7 years and in May we started getting a little serious. (sex and couple stuff) But never made it official. Okay so he left and didn’t call me for like a week, he finally called me for the first time(a friday) we talked and that was that. That next week he called me on a Wed. So I was starting to see a pattern but he didn’t call me again for like another week and that time he called my job. In September he only called me once out of that month so during it I was planning my get over him plan and at least I kind of thought it was working. So still no word from him for a whole month and the last day of Sept. he calls me. And of course all my feelings come flooding back ino my heart and honestly they never left. Now I have three other ways of contacting him but I figure why bother. 1 way is facebook which he was just on and I sent him a message and when I clicked back over he got off. Wat to do?

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Ladies – I need your insight?

Posted on May 25, 2011 by admin| 29 Comments

I am in college right now, and there is this girl that caught my eye on the first day of class. For those of you who know what Facebook is, here is what I did:

I asked her if she would add me as a friend, to which she responded “Sure I will; it was nice of you to ask me first”.

I replied to her message with “I was just wondering if you might want to meet me sometime outside of class so that we can talk to each other in person?”

She replied with yes, and now I am going to see her tomorrow.

The problem I have is this: Even though we have class together, we sit on opposite sides of the room, and due to this, haven’t said one word yet to one another.

My question for all of you is this: Why would she agree to meet me when I haven’t even introduced myself to her yet? – She literally doesn’t know a thing about me, yet she is willing to meet me for coffee tomorrow! – I don’t want to think that it is because she is attracted to me – what else could it be?

She’s 19 – I’m 21

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Do I stand a chance?

Posted on May 24, 2011 by admin| 4 Comments

Here is the story. I am a college freshman, and I believe I have a crush on this girl, who is very classy, nice, and always smiling. Both of us are in ballroom dancing club, and that’s how I got to know her. I have known her for only 10 days, but I feel that she is the girl I really like. Whenever I meet her and talk to her, I try to find some common grounds and talk about them. However, I’m a little worried because I am not so humorous. I have recently noticed that some dudes have started talking to her. I can see they are trying to hit on her. My best friend tells me that they are ugly scrubs and that I should be able to “get her” as long as I have confidence. I am still worried though. I wrote on her Facebook wall several times, but she never wrote back. I wonder if this indicates her lack of interest. I know I should take some time to get to know her better, but I don’t want to see someone else becoming her boyfriend. I need some advice. Thank you.

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I am not so humorous, but do I stand a chance?

Posted on May 23, 2011 by admin| 5 Comments

Here is the story. I am a college freshman, and I believe I have a crush on this girl, who is very classy, nice, and always smiling. Both of us are in ballroom dancing club, and that’s how I got to know her. I have known her for only 10 days, but I feel that she is the girl I really like. Whenever I meet her and talk to her, I try to find some common grounds and talk about them. However, I’m a little worried because I am not so humorous. I have recently noticed that some dudes have started talking to her. I can see they are trying to hit on her. My best friend tells me that they are ugly scrubs and that I should be able to “get her” as long as I have confidence. I am still worried though. I wrote on her Facebook wall several times, but she never wrote back. I wonder if this indicates her lack of interest. I know I should take some time to get to know her better, but I don’t want to see someone else becoming her boyfriend. I need some advice. Thank you.

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If your bf gets invited to a sorority invitational or dance, what would you do?

Posted on May 11, 2011 by admin| 9 Comments

Your bf goes to a different college… you trust your boyfriend but c’mon, it’s a dance… a SORORITY dance, where he will dance with his date who is okay, a friend, where people get drunk and crazy, and you know pics will be up on facebook or myspace the next day… so your bf asks for your opinion, what would you do?

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So Fox News admits Republican bias now?

Posted on May 9, 2011 by admin| 12 Comments

I just saw the fox news group on facebook. For those of you that dont know, facebook is a networking site for college students. Their slogan: “Fox News, the network your professors dont want you to watch” WTF?! Is this new? Why in the hell would a news network that constantly screamed “fair and balanced” actually just go all out and admit their bias. But hey, whatever, its not like it was a mystery.
Well I knew there would be at least one jakass that would say “Well you watch CNN, MSNBC duuuuuuuuuuuurrrrrr.” Not that the point there genius, I am well aware of bias, just not the flagrant parading of it.
wow there are alot of dumbass people on here that dont even know how to answer a question
turbo weegie: learn to read, I said I AM AWARE OF BIAS, now run along.

Shiraz: Koolaide????? wow, you are really out there, not in a good way.

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I am homeschooled so I don’t have a highschool e-mail address. Is there any way I can register for Facebook?

Posted on May 8, 2011 by admin| 3 Comments

I was invited by someone in college but I don’t have a college e-mail address either, obviously, so I can’t join that network.

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