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I have a boyfriend and a crush on someone else too!?

Posted on June 28, 2011 by admin| 8 Comments

I’m a 1st year grad student, and I have a crush on my RA who’s an undergrad. Til now we’ve just done small talk. This week he’s been more friendly, though. A couple of days ago, he invited me to a hall social. Then, tonight he ate dinner with me in the cafeteria. We talked for an hour, and we seem to have similar personalities. He acted silly, which he’d never done before. During the conversation, he mentioned that he’d been talking to a girl online, but that hadn’t worked out, so now he was looking for a relationship. He said he preferred older girls. Near the end of the conversation, he invited me to hang out with him and his friends on Sunday.

The only problem is that I’m in an LDR that’s not going well, and I’m sure my crush knows because we’re both on facebook and my status says I’m in a relationship. Should I assume that my crush’s comments about wanting a relationship were a sign that he likes me? Normally I wouldn’t even consider it, but my current SO is being neglectful.

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My boyfriend is a hypocrite,what can I do?

Posted on June 26, 2011 by admin| 7 Comments

He post a personal ad on facebook looking for a language partner,but he freaks out when I reply to a personal ad.

What can I do about it?

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I caught my boyfriend on craigslist….?

Posted on June 9, 2011 by admin| 11 Comments

I am so devastated. My friend told me that he saw an ad that my boyfriend had placed on craigslist. Basically, it was ad seeking bi sex with a girl and another guy (I didn’t even know he was into girls!!). I didn’t believe him (or at least didn’t want to), so I went onto craigslist myself just to see… and sure enough, my boyfriend had placed an ad looking for sex. He even put a face photo on the ad (that’s how I knew for sure it was him).

I feel so betrayed and devastated. I haven’t said anything to him yet (he’s still at work). I really love him and I thought he loved me.. I’m insecure enough about our relationship as it is, but I feel like this is just going to destroy me inside.

Should I confront him about it?
How should I confront him?
I need a shoulder to cry on.. Why are men such a.s.s.-holes??
For those of you who are being dickheads in your answers below, I just have to warn you that I am in the mood to rip someone’s balls off. So if you want a posterity, please don’t f-ck with me.

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If your bf gets invited to a sorority invitational or dance, what would you do?

Posted on May 11, 2011 by admin| 9 Comments

Your bf goes to a different college… you trust your boyfriend but c’mon, it’s a dance… a SORORITY dance, where he will dance with his date who is okay, a friend, where people get drunk and crazy, and you know pics will be up on facebook or myspace the next day… so your bf asks for your opinion, what would you do?

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Should I Call It Quits?

Posted on April 10, 2011 by admin| 16 Comments

My Boyfriend and I have been together off and on for a year. Everyone knows that relationships have their ups and downs and when we’re up we are ELEVATING beyond the clouds, but when we’re down I feel like we’re below the depths of hell and he gets mad at dumb things. For instance, he got angry because he informed me that his ex went to my school and I looked her up on facebook to see what she looked like…He gets mad when I mention his ex-girfriends but I try not to get mad at anything or to argue because it causes friction. We have been through alot of things and we’re trying to make it work while i’m in school, but he’s not making it easier for me. His hubris aggrivates me at times, he lets his pride override his true feelings. Should I explore my options and see what else is out there while I’m in college? OR stay in the relationship for the sake of love and the fact that he’s honest with me and wouldn’t cheat? Its hard to find a guy like that nowadays

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How should you approach your boyfriend after you find out he has been sending messages to other girls?

Posted on March 25, 2011 by admin| 13 Comments

I got my boyfriends MySpace, Facebook, and e-mail password (accidentally LOL) and found out he was sending messages to other girls now I don’t know what to do without telling on myself for getting the password.

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what the best way to go about finding someone who would have a 3some with me and my boyfriend?

Posted on March 25, 2011 by admin| 10 Comments

My boyfriend and I have decided we want to have a 3some. but how do find someone interested in doing that without any attachments? We made ourselfs a myspace page. I searched craigslist.. Well actually I should say.. what is the safest way in doing this?

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Should I delete a friend off Facebook because my boyfriend says so?

Posted on February 2, 2011 by admin| 16 Comments

This guy and I have been (somewhat I guess) friends for a few years. At one time we had more than just a friendship, but weren’t dating. Some how my boyfriend knows about this and he absolutely hates any guy that I’ve ever liked/dated/”hung out” with. He doesn’t care about talking to me ex of 4 years because he says “at least he cared for you” (my ex is also not that attractive). This guy and many other guys that I dated-or whatever-between boyfriends, are what you could call “cookie cutters”. They are tall, dark, handsome blah blah. But I have no feelings for any other guy!

Is he being over possessive for asking me to take him off my friends list?

*Facebook is very similar to Myspace for those of you who don’t know.
I’m thinking it’s a jealousy issue, but I’m not sure.

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What should I think when my boyfriend….?

Posted on January 19, 2011 by admin| 20 Comments

Okay I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years now. We recently took a break for about 3 weeks. After we got back together a girl (Jane) whom I’ve never heard of before called him at 11pm and I questioned him, thinking it was too late at night to call. So I asked im who Jane was and he told me “oh she is an old friend, I was friends with her boyfriend and her and I ran into her on campus recently”. I didn’t question him on this until I found out on facebook that she doesn’t even go to his school as he had previously told me. I questioned him and he tore me a new asshole telling me that I don’t trust him. He was really defensive and told me that Jane used to go to school with him, but transferred. Then, she sent him a message talking about how they met at a party and danced and flirted all night. When I confronted him with evidence he admitted that he met Jane at a party while me and him were on a break and continued to be her friend. How should I take this? Thank you

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Richard Marx poster?

Posted on October 21, 2010 by admin| 1 Comment

My boyfriend is a huge richard Marx fan, and I wanted to get him a great poster of him because he has one in his music room already. I would love it if it was signed, but I’ll take what I can get. I already looked on ebay. Is there any other sight, besides Craigslist too, that would have one?

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