My husband has extreme jealousy that I shared my virginity with my ex-boyfriend — I would usually call him by name not by label. We are only ex’s b/c I got married and I moved (We were best friends!). Since marriage, I have been too afraid to keep up communication with my ex. However, he just joined an online community that I am also involved with (facebook) and is requesting friendship. I always wish we could still talk without my husband’s rage (he has an anger problem). I am not sure what to do b/c I could not tell my husband b/c of his unfounded anger. My husband and I are 20 and my ex best friend is a senior in high school.
He and I would not try to re-establish any resemblance of a romantic relationship.. blah blah. I just want my best friend back. I haved missed him a lot! What should I do?