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How do I make it up to this girl and get her attention?

there was this girl in my summer class we didn’t talk much…school msg’d her on facebook so we talked for weeks..but then i mentioned about my trip and that id give her a souveneir…and she wa slike oh really how sweet? ( like as if she found it wierd) so she was like…we should meet up sometime….then i talk to her another day…and i left a msg on her facebook..said i had like a souveneir waiting fo her and for her number…but then i talked ot her on aim about cause no reply…so then she blocked me and erased me from her facebook as a friend…I know i shouldnt of told her i had a souvenier since we had just met and not talked much in class..but i felt she was out of my league and that i had to have an excuse to talk to her….pathethic but i was nervous…cause i like her i think….i tried telling her that out of my league stuff but she wont listen and now i dont kno what to do but i think i care…if she talks to me or not…what should i do?

How can I get this girl to forgive me?>?

there was this girl in my summer class we didn’t talk much…school msg’d her on facebook so we talked for weeks..but then i mentioned about my trip and that id give her a souveneir…and she wa slike oh really how sweet? ( like as if she found it wierd) so she was like…we should meet up sometime….then i talk to her another day…and i left a msg on her facebook..said i had like a souveneir waiting fo her and for her number…but then i talked ot her on aim about cause no reply…so then she blocked me and erased me from her facebook as a friend…I know i shouldnt of told her i had a souvenier since we had just met and not talked much in class..but i felt she was out of my league and that i had to have an excuse to talk to her….pathethic but i was nervous…cause i like her i think….i tried telling her that out of my league stuff but she wont listen and now i dont kno what to do but i think i care…if she talks to me or not…what should i do?

Did I overreact to her?

we don’t know eachother a whole lot ..we had a class together this summer….then i had msg’d her on facebook…we talked a bit…then when we got on aim…one time i was like can i ask u something if ur not busy..she was like yeah but im about to go to bed though…i was like nvm then bye…she was like umm okay bye……

did i ovvereact? I seem to like this girl thats y i get upset fast i guess …should i apologize or just give her time and talk to her later considering we dont know eachother that well..we only talked like one time in class…and shes back to her university city…she just went to my college to takea summer course

I am a boy and my question is: How do you start a AIM or Facebook conversation with a guy or girl (choose one)

I am a high schooler (9th grade)
I usually get the

hey
hey
whats up
not much u?
not much either

Then the conversation stops, how would I continue it?

If she tells a guy that we’re not going out, and we are, what should I do?

She told a guy at work that she wasn’t going out with me, but in real life my girlfriend and I were going out for more than two years. We had a fight about it already. She told me that she liked him and thought she was flirting with him. Now, I think she’s talking to him behind my back. What’s really hard is that I don’t know if she’s lying or not. She asks for my forgiveness and stuff, but she is still “friends” with him on facebook and still has his sn on AIM. I don’t care about it before because they work with each other but she told him that me and her aren’t going out. I love her with all my heart and I really can’t let her go. We been through a lot of good and bad times, but is she changing? She have done this before with another guy. One thing, she gets mad at me when I get mad about the situation. What’s up with that? I need some advice, info, anything!! Tell me what’s on your mind… please have a lot of people to comment this so I can take a right course of action.
Another thing, that guy she works with… I talked to him about it and my girlfriend got mad. Now the guy is sad and dopey and stuff… I think he’s trying to get attention. And now I found out that they’re working a full shift with each other… after the situation happened they stop “talking” but I don’t know if that’s true. The dude has been poking her and commenting her through facebook and stuff… what I don’t get is if he’s mad and doesn’t want to talk to her, why is he trying to contact her online when I’m not around????

If she tells a guy that we’re not going out, and we are, what should I do?

She told a guy at work that she wasn’t going out with me, but in real life my girlfriend and I were going out for more than two years. We had a fight about it already. She told me that she liked him and thought she was flirting with him. Now, I think she’s talking to him behind my back. What’s really hard is that I don’t know if she’s lying or not. She asks for my forgiveness and stuff, but she is still “friends” with him on facebook and still has his sn on AIM. I don’t care about it before because they work with each other but she told him that me and her aren’t going out. I love her with all my heart and I really can’t let her go. We been through a lot of good and bad times, but is she changing? She have done this before with another guy. One thing, she gets mad at me when I get mad about the situation. What’s up with that? I need some advice, info, anything!! Tell me what’s on your mind… please have a lot of people to comment this so I can take a right course of action.
Okay more details… I gave her flowers, kisses, hugs, telling her that I love her and stuff… whenever the guy comes into the conversation (about what’s going on) she gets mad and threatens to leave me and never talk to me again… she told me that she hates it when someone is mad at her especially at work. I’ve done everything to get her totally (completely) on my side. But I don’t know what to do… I want to keep this relationship because she a great person who helps me when i’m in need… now I’m thinking that college is getting in the way and she’s getting sick of me… I truly love her so much… it’s going to hurt me… Whenever I get hurt she gets mad at me for being “dopey” or whatever.

Do guys enjoy girls begging them?I kinda got this feeling from my ex bf. What should i do?

Like last time we broke up i begged him a lot but he behaved like a jerk. i was heartbroken and accepted the invitation from one of his friends to go with him for thanksgiving. Then my ex went crazy and chased me down. But in his message he’s always like i wanna talk to you but if you dont wanna talk, i’m find with that too,showing him non-chalant. We broke up again during his finals week b/c he’s stressed out and i was high maintenance.Lately we met on aim, normally once he sees me on line during our breakups, he would immediately block me. But now we are just both online and not talking.I feel like he’s waiting for me to initiate the convo b/c that’s what i always did. And he just added “scrubs” as his favorite tv shows on facebook. A month ago when i told him scrubs has become my favorite show he didnt even like it.I kinda feel he’s wanting me to beg him again like i did in the past.I’m not sure though but I dont wanna beg.i want him back though,what should i do?
This is his first relationship in 21 years and i feel he likes to play games a lot to maintain his so-called dignity. Like when we are out sometimes we got lost but he always refused to ask for directions. He’d rather go around the same place over and over to find his own way. I hate this kind of impractical moves of his!

Please tell me how he will come back, except all this, he’s a nice immature confusing guy.

Do guys enjoy girls begging them?I kinda got this feeling from my ex bf. What should i do?

Like last time we broke up i begged him a lot but he behaved like a jerk. Then i was heartbroken and accepted the invitation from one of his friends(not very close to him) to go with him for thanksgiving. Then my ex went crazy and chased me down. But in his message he’s always like i wanna talk to you but if you dont wanna talk, i’m find with that too. You know, showing him non-chalant but actually he was crazy to get me back at that time. We broke up again during his finals week b/c he’s stressed out and i was high maintenance. Lately we met on aim, normally once he sees me on line during our breakups, he would immediately block me. But now we are just both online and not talking. And he just added “scrubs” as his favorite tv shows on facebook. A month ago when i told him scrubs has become my favorite show he didnt even like it. And now he’s doing this.I kinda feel he’s wanting me to beg him again like i did in the past.I’m not sure though but I dont wanna beg.i want him back though
This is his first relationship in 21 years and i feel he likes to play games a lot to maintain his so-called dignity. Like when we are out sometimes we got lost but he always refused to ask for directions. He’d rather go around the same place over and over to find his own way. I hate this kind of impractical moves of his!

Three year crush.?

When I was 15, I went to school with this really awesome guy who I ended up having the biggest crush on and I never really knew how to go about talking to him so it was always very awkward small talk over AIM. I am 18 now, and I haven’t seen him in person since I was 15, and I still like him so much. I visit his facebook sometimes and try to think of something to say to him, but I really don’t know what to say since I have never really spoken to him all that much in person and I haven’t said anything to him in a while. Any suggestions as to what I should do to get to know him without sounding awkward and obsessed?

P.S. Keep in mind that he knew I liked him toward the end of my sophomor year.

Does any one have Google AdSense that could help me figure out how to work it?

i have yahoo messenger and AIM and i need help