I like this girl that goes to my school. I logged on to a site called facebook and a message popped up saying she was single. I never asked her out because she was dating someone, but should I ask her out, or wait? I’m just afraid of being a rebound date and messing things up with this girl, but I don’t want someone else to ask her first. Please help, what should I do? 10 points to the most logical and best answer.
Meflyfaster,
Okay this is the deal. She may still have feelings for this guy. So asking her out on a date is a good idea, but be prepared, she may disappoint you in the final act. She may say yes to your date invitation, but she could be saying no to the relationship that you are hoping for. It takes a lot for a girl to shake off the feelings they have for another person. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, go for it.
TDCWH
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you will never know until you try to ask her or invite her for a date. just a friendly date first, there nothing wrong with that.
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wait a few days, don’t jump right on the first chance you get, she still has to recover from her break-up, just don’t wait too long.
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Tell the girl that you really like her and saw her singles ad and decided to ask her out. Tell her you didnt ask her out because you knew she was dating the other guy and you also want her to know that you are also a friend wanting to help her deal with her break up.Also being honest will help alot
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It’s like this dude. What happens if you don’t ask her? that’s right…nothing, your still not with her which will suck. What happens if you do talk to her? she may say no but what do you have to loose. Take some advise from a older guy. You are only young once and when school is done it’s done. Don’t regret the things you wish you would have done. One more thing. all these girls answering this question that say be her friend first….What ever you do do not listen to them. puke, give me a break. Once your on the friend list there’s no getting off it. You will never have the chance to date her then. Does this sound familiar…. I like you and all but I just think of you as a friend, and then you are stuck watching her date other guy’s.
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If you really like her, ask her out. Like you said, if you don’t, someone might. Besides, nothing will change if you get turned down and if she accepts, then that will just make you happy.
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