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Should I leave my fiance?
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Time to go, sista!
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leave him…….for me ;P
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tell him to F*** off
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if you are the only one he’s ever been with, he might be thinking about the fact that if he marries you that will be the only thing he will ever have, cept for cheating. If he lies to you, dump him.
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maybe you both need some space and he needs to make a decsion and decide if he wants you and only you and loves you he would respect your feelings. You really need to get this resolved before you take serious steps such as marriage..if it doesnt work out i would move on..
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We can’t help you with this sister. It’s your relationship and only you know what really goes on. Good luck.
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I think anything done online is a form of cheating and if he does it online what makes you think he wont do it in real life. Save your time and breath and move on or set some ground rules.
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I think you should put off the wedding for now. chill with him for another year or so and then see where you are. It will be less hard to leave him once your married.
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Only you know the answer to that, waht do you truely want to do. search your heart.
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Give him a chance.
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If he’s intereested in other girls, then something is wrong. If you know he loves you I say stay with him and work things out.
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He’s not ready for you and I would be very careful before you finally get married.
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It is all about trust! If you feel that you cannot trust him move on! Trust me, it is not worth it. If you really feel that it is something small that can be overlooked then by all means talk it out clear the air and make sure of what you will and will not tolerate. Make sure there is no misunderstanding. Good Luck!
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Sounds like to me he is not ready for a commitment yet. If he is still interested in other women then in his mind you are not all he wants….and maybe there is someone better out there. When you know you have found the right one there is no need to look any longer right? But it would seem he is still looking.
Good luck
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Yes, he’s not worth it.
Drop him like a hot rock and move on!
AND…when I say move on, I mean exactly that.
DO NOT call him!
DO NOT accept his calls!
GO SILENT on him!
RESIST THE URGE to get him told!
MOVE ON and DO NOT look back; not even for a split second!
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That is a really hard situation i dont know what i would do if my fiance did that i know i would feel hurt and unwanted. but some guys are just curious about other women. my bf looks up adult single chats all the time right in front of me, i dont know if it is because he’s just playing around or he is interested. I hope not. Just ask him if there is something about those other girls that he likes. If he does then find someone else that likes you. Im sure you can do better anyway.
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yes move on let himget more mature. he needs it and you need someone whose head doesnt turn so easily
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I do not think you should worry that much about the whole computer thing. But you being the only one he has been with is a slightprobelm. And he even told you that he is intersted in other girls.I dont think marriage is in you guys near furture when its still things he needs to explore.Im sure you will thank yourself later then being unhappy now.
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let him go! save the hurt because why is he looking else where if it is not the computer it is going to be something else. What about space apart for a while to ya can see what ya want. Or how about you getting a page and let him accidentally cacth you and see what he does?
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You deserve someone who will show you respect at all times… It really sounds like he’s running into some maturity issues. As difficult as it may sound I would advise letting him be on his own for a year or more to figure out what he wants. If you are the only real girlfriend he’s ever had he will always be curious… Plus he can’t appreciate you for the awesome catch that you are! This sounds like a terrible thing to do at the moment, but it will give you the truth in the long run. My husband and I dated off and on for 8 years. I married another man when I was 20 because my current husband wasn’t mature enough to have a healthy relationship. We never fell out of love, but we needed the distance. Today we are happy together with two children. We both needed to time and space to discover we wanted nothing more than to be with one another. If you love him let him go… If he comes back then he’s yours for keeps.
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is that what he told you?………that u r the only one he’s ever being with? OK then, because u r the only one he has ever been with – he is curious about other people, that’s y he is talking inappropriately to all these girls. don’t marry him now, let him go out and experience what other girls have to offer, if he comes back to u then he is urs, if not, then he wasn’t really urs.if u get too deep in with him now then he’ll always be curios about other girls and therefore will always be cheating.
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I think that if he treat you the way that a woman should be treated, and gives you totally respect then there is nothing to worry about. I think you should only worry if he start going out with other women.. Talking with someone on myspace should worry you. If he is good to you keep him. Good men are hard to find.. A little advice spice up things to keep him interested, don’t nag about myspace..
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If you’re not sure then postpone the wedding until your postive that you can trust him, unless you want a divorce if it goes the wrong way
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Have you tried counseling? It’s amazing what you can discover about your relationship with a little counseling. You are about to take a big step, sister. Take it properly!
You might want to visit family.org, or similar sites.
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First of all if you have a good men girl keep him my space aint shit, now if you saw him with another girl or something like that then it will be different but stay with you men if he is good to u keep him.
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