Okay, here we go. We’ve been together a little under 2 years and we love eachother very much. He was on myspace and facebook talking inappropriately to some girls and when I confronted him I asked him, “Do you want to even be with me?” and he said he does want to be with me but he gets interested in other girls. He deleted his myspace and facebook accounts. I broke up with him but we worked things out. I’m sympathetic to him because I’m the only one he’s ever been with but what should I do? I don’t know. Should I not worry about it since it’s just the computer and we spend lots of time together and have fun. I’m trying to trust him but is it worth it? Should I move one?
Hi,
I went through a similar situation. My ex was hooked on the internet and chatting w/ other girls. of course, i foudn out on my own, he had saved his conversations w/ girls at his parents house’s computer. He would tell them he was single and flirt. he even would get thier numbers & would talk for hours w/ them! I got rid of his lying behind because he had cheated before and even met one of this girls. That seed of doubt was planted and was never able to trust him ever again. I thought i could because we coudl work things out and i loved him. But he would “behave” for a bit, but then i caught him again. They don’t change. Enter this relationship at your own risk, i recommend you move on. Because w/out trust your relationship will never work. A relationship needs LOVE, Trust and Security and when you don’t have one of those, it doesnt’ balance out and pretty much is doomed. Move on honey, he didnt respect you.
GOD BLESS and GOOD LUCK
~LATINA~~
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don’t worry about it that much you gust have to be giving him some space but look carefully what he has don…
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I also suggest sitting him down and having a serious talk with him.
Tell him how you feel, and why you feel that way. And ask him to do the same.
Ask him what these girls provide him, that you don’t. Sometimes, it’s something simple. If he is resorting to finding excitement elsewhere, find out what’s wrong, and try to fix it together.
If it’s something minor, it’s probably not worth losing each other over.
Good luck.
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ok , if he is going to talk to other girls on the computer … what makes you think that he’s not going to talk to girls in person…. i understand that u love him but if he treats you like that then he dosnt deserve your love … i suggest u sit down and really have a personal talk and adrees the issues and ask him what her dosnt like about you because u cant juss blame everything on him and try to work out your differences … hope it helps
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leave him if he likes other girls…its u he wants or not…its simple, why marry someone whoz turned on by other chicks? isnt marrage about being with the “one and only one”???
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