Is my friend still my friend…help?
March 11th, 2010
okay….last year my guy friend and I hung out like all the time…no joke. we hung out so much that people thought we were a couple…which we weren’t
anywayz…school started a couple days ago and whenever i sign on to aim and he’s already on he’ll sign off.
or on the other hand, i have facebook. i put a new pic up. everyone has been commenting on how great i look and all of that jazz.
he only IM’s me for generic quesitons such as when did u get back to school and that stuff.
i feel that he always signs off because i sign on to aim.
IS HE STILL A GOOD FRIEND or should i find news friend. need adviice….good advice.
and i don’t wanna talk to him

talk to him, face to face
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if you talk to him on the computer, ask him.
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ask him whats up then you will know.
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Ask him what his problem is,and why he signs off when he see you sign on.See what kind of answer he gives you,then decide on the friendship.
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I AGREE…TALK TO HIM FACE TO FACE AND FIND OUT WHAT THE PROBLEM IS…IF YOU DONT ASK, THEN YOU WON’T KNOW.
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i think he has moved on…. u really need to find what hes upto form his OTHER FRIENDS… and try asking indeirectly… if that doesnt work out n his weird behaviour continues for a long time then directly ask him…. Dont make the mistake of aksin him early cuz it looks lik u kinda like him n his company now tht u miss him …. if u ask then he may think diffrently and things may turn out very good (u ppl see each other) or very bad like he’ll ignore u even more… so let it be the way it is .. it think its better.. cuz the truth is always bitter.. neways best of luck…. need more help u can speak to me …
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If you are a girl, and it sounds like you are, I think this guy developed feelings for you and can’t remain just a friend anymore.
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Well if he is such a good friend or has been in the past then you should feel comfortable enough to talk to him. Whats wrong with having some communication??? How else do you get this resolved??? Sorry to say.. but you gotta talk to him if you want this fixed.
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Sometimes a friend stops being a friend, but you need to hold onto them. Do that. You won’t be so close, but that’s another person to talk to. Just think of what you’re doing. You don’t wanna make a huge mistake. Many times you need to think. It’s your clue word for today. If you really feel like you need to let go, then do so. As long as your decisions come from your heart, because frindships are super important and worth way more than gold and money.
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