Comments on: I want to rekindle my friendship with my ex but I wouldn’t be able to tell my jealous husband.? http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/ put it on a USB Flash Drive Thu, 04 Aug 2011 07:02:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: legguy2003 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-87119 legguy2003 Fri, 12 Feb 2010 20:28:04 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/#comment-87119 Think about it, would you be upset/ jealous if your husband wanted to rekindle a relationship with an old fling? Someitmes the past just needs to be let go, adn move on with your future and happy marriage. Think about it, would you be upset/ jealous if your husband wanted to rekindle a relationship with an old fling? Someitmes the past just needs to be let go, adn move on with your future and happy marriage.

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]]> By: sher7us http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-87113 sher7us Fri, 12 Feb 2010 18:28:50 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/#comment-87113 No wonder your husband has angry issues, you need to forget the x hes an x for some reason. Trying to get your (friend) back will not work. Deal with your husband and your marriage and move forward, looking back will only cause confusion and pain. Hope best for you! No wonder your husband has angry issues, you need to forget the x hes an x for some reason. Trying to get your (friend) back will not work. Deal with your husband and your marriage and move forward, looking back will only cause confusion and pain. Hope best for you!

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]]> By: lilmissy http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-87107 lilmissy Fri, 12 Feb 2010 16:27:24 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/#comment-87107 First you really need to find out if your ex is ONLY your best friend. It sounds like to me that there may be more to it. You said that the "only reason why you are ex's is because you got married". Does that mean when you got married you still had feelings for your ex? The answer to that question is how you should proceed. If you still have feelings for your ex, you can't make yourself love another person. You did make a vow to "forsake all others" but that only applies when you heart belongs to the one you are married to. As much as I hate divorce (been there), you would be wasting your husbands life it you pretend to love him. He should be set free to find his true love. If you dont have feelings for your ex, then ultimately you must tell your husband and respect his decision. How would you feel if he had an ex girlfriend that he wanted to be in contact with against your will? Honesty is always the best policy. Especially in marriage. First you really need to find out if your ex is ONLY your best friend. It sounds like to me that there may be more to it. You said that the “only reason why you are ex’s is because you got married”. Does that mean when you got married you still had feelings for your ex?
The answer to that question is how you should proceed.
If you still have feelings for your ex, you can’t make yourself love another person. You did make a vow to “forsake all others” but that only applies when you heart belongs to the one you are married to. As much as I hate divorce (been there), you would be wasting your husbands life it you pretend to love him. He should be set free to find his true love.
If you dont have feelings for your ex, then ultimately you must tell your husband and respect his decision. How would you feel if he had an ex girlfriend that he wanted to be in contact with against your will?
Honesty is always the best policy.
Especially in marriage.

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]]> By: free_angel http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-87102 free_angel Fri, 12 Feb 2010 14:27:45 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/#comment-87102 Forget about the ex, you need to focus on your husband and his reasons why this would make him jealous. Forget about the ex, you need to focus on your husband and his reasons why this would make him jealous.

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]]> By: yooper guy http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-87100 yooper guy Fri, 12 Feb 2010 12:27:16 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/#comment-87100 Sounds like you got married way too early and you married a jerk. good luck, you will need it Sounds like you got married way too early and you married a jerk. good luck, you will need it

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]]> By: Di http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-87099 Di Fri, 12 Feb 2010 11:28:55 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/#comment-87099 Your alot confused. We marry our best friends...where is your thinking really? Your alot confused. We marry our best friends…where is your thinking really?

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]]> By: Iridescence http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-87094 Iridescence Fri, 12 Feb 2010 09:28:02 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/#comment-87094 You are married - leave your ex alone. Your husband has a right to be pissed if you start a friendship back up with him. It just isn't right and proper, especially since you had a sexual relationship. Your marriage and your husband come first. You are married – leave your ex alone. Your husband has a right to be pissed if you start a friendship back up with him. It just isn’t right and proper, especially since you had a sexual relationship. Your marriage and your husband come first.

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]]> By: tigerisexxy http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-87087 tigerisexxy Fri, 12 Feb 2010 07:27:53 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/#comment-87087 sweetie i know that he seem so selfish to you,but something are meant to let go.so if you love your husband let go of that friend or honey you would have some serious problem.ask your self do my ex worth it.all this trouble i face.see if your ex was married i know he wouldn't even ruin his marriage for you. sweetie i know that he seem so selfish to you,but something are meant to let go.so if you love your husband let go of that friend or honey you would have some serious problem.ask your self do my ex worth it.all this trouble i face.see if your ex was married i know he wouldn’t even ruin his marriage for you.

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]]> By: ladyceclia http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-87083 ladyceclia Fri, 12 Feb 2010 05:27:29 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/#comment-87083 I'm wondering why you would want to rekindle your friendship with an ex if married. Maybe you haven't gotten over him yet or maybe you want to make the husband jealous. It doesn't make any sense to do that. Ask yourself would you like it if the husband did that with an ex and be honest about it because I don't believe none of us would like it. Also this is a senior in high school, what could you have in common with him? I’m wondering why you would want to rekindle your friendship with an ex if married. Maybe you haven’t gotten over him yet or maybe you want to make the husband jealous. It doesn’t make any sense to do that. Ask yourself would you like it if the husband did that with an ex and be honest about it because I don’t believe none of us would like it. Also this is a senior in high school, what could you have in common with him?

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]]> By: Adventure Man http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-87081 Adventure Man Fri, 12 Feb 2010 04:27:49 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2010/02/i-want-to-rekindle-my-friendship-with-my-ex-but-i-wouldnt-be-able-to-tell-my-jealous-husband/#comment-87081 You may have to write this one off as "irretrievably out of reach." Good friends or not, the difference is that he is your ex, the one you used to be involved with before you married your current mate. That one fact alone is insurmountable and should not be resurrected in any form. Your current husband may have an anger management issue, but on this one I believe he has a right to be upset and against the whole idea. Bottom line: let it be, let it be and get on with making your husband feel like he's the most important man in your life. Bad things will likely happen between you two if you persist in trying to rationalize any further relationship with your ex. Grow up, wise up. Good luck. You may have to write this one off as “irretrievably out of reach.” Good friends or not, the difference is that he is your ex, the one you used to be involved with before you married your current mate. That one fact alone is insurmountable and should not be resurrected in any form. Your current husband may have an anger management issue, but on this one I believe he has a right to be upset and against the whole idea. Bottom line: let it be, let it be and get on with making your husband feel like he’s the most important man in your life. Bad things will likely happen between you two if you persist in trying to rationalize any further relationship with your ex. Grow up, wise up. Good luck.

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