Recently my best friend (let’s call him bob) moved to another state for college. I’ve liked him on and off for a little less than 2 yrs and I think bob has liked me for about a year and a half. The other day I told him that I like him and he replied that he likes me. However, I’m worried that the physical distance between us (I’m in CA and bob’s in the midwest) might create an emotional distance… also, he has met a girl in his college who has the same name as I do and I can see that they talk about getting lunch together & hanging out & stuff like that on his (this part may sound really lame/immature…) facebook. I’m just a naturally jealous person but I’d be so sad if bob started falling for the other girl. Bob’s trustworthy best friend had told me more than once during our senior yr in high school that bob liked me a lot and that bob doesn’t really talk to a lot of other girls except for me. (bob & i went to homecoming/prom) i miss bob like crazy. how can i stop feeling jealous?
call him often but not obsessivly. ask him if he wants to be your bf. if he says yes congrats, but no then,,,,ha ha!!!srry
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you cant stop being jealous you just have to control your feelings and tell him how you maybe he feels the same way
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Easy stay single and enjoy being alone or get to be in a life of hurt.
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well u can try focusing ure mind on other things and trying dating to make him feel jealous or u can have some guts and make a move on him
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Dear, if you are that far apart, things are bound to happen that neither one of you may like…….If it was meant to be for the two of you, no matter who you date, you’ll end up together…….My suggestion is that you find a friend (not neccessarily a boyfriend) and get on with it………..
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YOU CAN’T.
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get rid of the ugly green eyed monster, it will only cause heart ache, learn to trust him and enjoy the fact that he could have a female friend to chat with or would you prefer for him to only chat with boys
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just be content with yourself and this other girl may share your name but not your character. have confidence and know that he is for you and nobody else compares to you! GOOD LUCK
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First, realize how short life is
and that you have got so much
to do! Just put Bob on the back
burner, cause whatever is going
to happen is going to happen.
Do not waste your precious time
worrying over something you
absolutely can NOT change one
way or the other. Then go have
a great life. Enjoy life!!! Have fun!!
When Bob comes back you will
be a fun loving open joyful person,
not some old haggard thing saying,
“Did you cheat on me? Are you sure?
Tell me everything you did!”
Once you find out you are a
great and interesting person,
you won’t worry what little
old Bob is doing!
Enjoy yourself, and have fun!!
Don’t forget – BACK Burner Bob!!
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