I’m a recent graduate from college and there is a girl with whom only accquainted – we were facebook friends if thats any indication, but never had any kind of one-on-one relationship. So I knew her, but not well. During my last semester, I realized that I liked her but sort of ran out of time to ask her out. I do know that one of my friends told her about my crush, but she never said anything to me about it, so I don’t know how she felt in return. My problem is that I still have feelings for her that don’t seem to be fading eventhough it is now 2 months after graduation. I’m not sure where she is anymore (I’m pretty sure she lives in my state but probably like 2-3 hours away). I do have her email address. I want to tell her how i feel, but I don’t know how to put it into an email without making it sound desperate and stalker-ish. Any suggestions would be great.
Copy and paste your question and email it to her. I think you’ve said it all!!! Good Luck
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One of the biggest regrets of my (before I met my wife) was not telling a women how I really felt about her. You risk alot doing it. Rejection and so forth but what if? Wouldn’t that be worth the risk? Email her tell her that you miss her and that you would like to get together with her, Go for man, if you don’t you will regret it for the rest of your life.
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sometimes on Facebook people keep checking it after graduation to keep in touch with old college friends, you know, so id send an email saying that you always thought she was a nice person and such and whether she would be interested in getting together… thats not creepy or stalkerish and it gives her an easy way to say yeah i’d be cool with that or say no without it being awkward, you know. just be laid back with it so she is comfortable
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Some people have the attitude that if you don’t grab the brass ring while it’s hanging in your face, you blew the chance. Well, I believe that feelings run far deeper than that and if you truly care about someone, anything can work if you give it a chance and honest try. Nothing is accomplished without suffering of some sort but if it is a sincere suffering and felt worth while to you, than you’ll never know unless you try……..
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