If you meet a guy and have been hanging out for over month. he says “i’m falling for you” then you find out he’s talking to other women online, which by the way, she’s really ugly…he still says she means nothing? is he trying to make me jealous? he leaves sexy, juicy comments under her pics on her myspace profile which he knows i look at. he says it bothers him too that guys leave me comments. so is he trying to make me jealous or is he just a player?
first, this is not something guys “do” it’s something this one guy is doing.
I would not jump to all the conclusions you are without asking him. But I confess that the whole blog thing baffles me… I just don’t get it. Maybe he is trying to mess with this girl on some level.
Oh, another aside, her looks have NOTHING to do with anything, the fact that you added that shows a little about your attitude.
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Good call on the attitude, jfer
He’s not very smart and from the sound of your question, you may not be either -in the ways of relationships. If that is his mode of operation, then it is obvious he does not really love nor care for you. You too share some guilt by going into chatrooms and talking to others and allowing other guys to leave messages of interest without squelching their advances. If you want a serious relationship, then both must be serious about it, dating is supposed to be with the goal of marriage. If you find he doesn’t meet your standards find a different potential mate. Make sure you yourself sre ready for the responsibilities of a real relationship.
A player will always play…
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well honestly in my opinion, i dont think theres anything wrong with a guy dropping a line for some random girl he never meet in his life. Anything and everything that has to do with online stuff is just a popularity contest.
So if this guy says he loves you, but talks to this random chick online dont look too much into it, unless he goes out of his way and meets this chick, THEN theres a problem, but other than that i dont think its a biggie.
Go on a few dates and hangout with him a little more and see if hes the type that will cheat on you. Dont judge him on how he acts in MYSPACE , XANGA , or FRIENDSTER , all of these are popularity contests. People are just acting and being different from who they really are.
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