Comments on: What should I think when my boyfriend….? http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/ put it on a USB Flash Drive Thu, 04 Aug 2011 07:02:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Anonymous http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-84742 Anonymous Thu, 24 Dec 2009 10:29:42 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/#comment-84742 Report this comment

]]> By: dpkmissy http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-84733 dpkmissy Thu, 24 Dec 2009 04:28:15 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/#comment-84733 Since he met her during the break, there's no sway you have over that. But you two have come back together again. You have to talk to him maturely about this, or else he's just going to label you as a jealous psycho. When you talk to him, make sure he understands that you consider him your boyfriend again. And that you need to know who she is and what kind of relationship he wants to have with her: acquaintance, friends, close friends, etc. Also explain to him that need to know because you don't want to be the jealous type, you just need to know so you can stop making her an issue. If you stay calm and mature, the discussion should go well. And if he seems hesitant at first, try to reassure him. My boyfriend was like that too, but then he realized that I really did want to move on, that I didn't want to keep "wondering" about the "other girl"! And just so you know, they are still friends, it's been 2 1/2 years and it doesn't bother me anymore. He always lets me know when they are going to hang out, and where they're going. I'll usually make dates with my other friends the same night too :) Since he met her during the break, there’s no sway you have over that. But you two have come back together again. You have to talk to him maturely about this, or else he’s just going to label you as a jealous psycho. When you talk to him, make sure he understands that you consider him your boyfriend again. And that you need to know who she is and what kind of relationship he wants to have with her: acquaintance, friends, close friends, etc. Also explain to him that need to know because you don’t want to be the jealous type, you just need to know so you can stop making her an issue. If you stay calm and mature, the discussion should go well. And if he seems hesitant at first, try to reassure him. My boyfriend was like that too, but then he realized that I really did want to move on, that I didn’t want to keep “wondering” about the “other girl”!

And just so you know, they are still friends, it’s been 2 1/2 years and it doesn’t bother me anymore. He always lets me know when they are going to hang out, and where they’re going. I’ll usually make dates with my other friends the same night too :)

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]]> By: cuddles http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-84722 cuddles Wed, 23 Dec 2009 23:27:50 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/#comment-84722 I would not bet the kitchen sink on the relationship. It is also not a Good idea to put too much into what happened while you were disengaged. Remember the don't ask don't tell in the military well don't set yourself up for grief by opening locked doors. When He is ready to tell you stuff He will. If he keeps defensive there must be something to the activity but don't forget men think with their package most of the time and not their hearts. Go forward With things and do not torment yourself. If you do not trust him now how will it be years down the road when you have less youth to offer and He is around hot babes. If you take care of business and keep his interest then there is nothing to worry about. Suspicion does more damage than hidden affairs because most of the time it is greatly overblown. his guilt will settle things without you fooling around. That is if he has something to be guilty about. guys and girls should have good friends among the opposite sex and their partners should not get upset by it. I would not bet the kitchen sink on the relationship. It is also not a Good idea to put too much into what happened while you were disengaged. Remember the don’t ask don’t tell in the military well don’t set yourself up for grief by opening locked doors. When He is ready to tell you stuff He will. If he keeps defensive there must be something to the activity but don’t forget men think with their package most of the time and not their hearts. Go forward With things and do not torment yourself. If you do not trust him now how will it be years down the road when you have less youth to offer and He is around hot babes. If you take care of business and keep his interest then there is nothing to worry about. Suspicion does more damage than hidden affairs because most of the time it is greatly overblown. his guilt will settle things without you fooling around. That is if he has something to be guilty about. guys and girls should have good friends among the opposite sex and their partners should not get upset by it.

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]]> By: greenmusiam http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-84714 greenmusiam Wed, 23 Dec 2009 19:35:50 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/#comment-84714 if you in love with him catch him if you in love with him catch him

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]]> By: sugargirl http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-84707 sugargirl Wed, 23 Dec 2009 15:31:56 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/#comment-84707 i think you should come right out and ask him what you place is in his life and how much does this other girl mean to him I hope the answers are what you need. Good luck............ i think you should come right out and ask him what you place is in his life and how much does this other girl mean to him I hope the answers are what you need.
Good luck…………

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]]> By: kristian121989 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-84701 kristian121989 Wed, 23 Dec 2009 12:33:05 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/#comment-84701 It's shit if you ask me. This guy doesn't know what you're worth, and it's bullshit. I'm sorry, it just sounds unfair. Break up with him, and tell him how you feel. Cry if you feel sad, 'cause it's good to be in touch with your feelings. Take your time to heal. And when you're ready, I strongly believe that you will find a guy who you really deserve. Pardon my language, I just feel for you. Good luck and take care, dude. It’s shit if you ask me. This guy doesn’t know what you’re worth, and it’s bullshit. I’m sorry, it just sounds unfair. Break up with him, and tell him how you feel. Cry if you feel sad, ’cause it’s good to be in touch with your feelings. Take your time to heal. And when you’re ready, I strongly believe that you will find a guy who you really deserve. Pardon my language, I just feel for you. Good luck and take care, dude.

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]]> By: dino1130 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-84698 dino1130 Wed, 23 Dec 2009 09:27:35 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/#comment-84698 Listen very carefully to your heart, whether you are angry with him or yourself. Listen very carefully to your heart, whether you are angry with him or yourself.

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]]> By: sweetonme9602 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-84690 sweetonme9602 Wed, 23 Dec 2009 05:27:44 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/#comment-84690 well he already lied about it and that makes a bad situation worse you should ask him not to have any dealings with her even if he says they are just friends because as far as the girl he already lied once tell him it shouldnt be a big deal because they just meet if he doesnt then all i can say is watch your back because if they flirted once it will happen again i know you guys have been together for along time and it might be hard to sever the ties between you two but i htink you should be careful if he doesnt understand you request(that he not see th girl again) then ask him how would he feel if if you wanted to be friends with someone who you were flirting with and attracted to. well he already lied about it and that makes a bad situation worse you should ask him not to have any dealings with her even if he says they are just friends because as far as the girl he already lied once tell him it shouldnt be a big deal because they just meet if he doesnt then all i can say is watch your back because if they flirted once it will happen again i know you guys have been together for along time and it might be hard to sever the ties between you two but i htink you should be careful if he doesnt understand you request(that he not see th girl again) then ask him how would he feel if if you wanted to be friends with someone who you were flirting with and attracted to.

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]]> By: johnmiller112 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-84684 johnmiller112 Wed, 23 Dec 2009 01:27:41 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/#comment-84684 dump the bastard and get someone who cares and respects you dump the bastard and get someone who cares and respects you

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]]> By: linchel2003 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-84678 linchel2003 Tue, 22 Dec 2009 22:30:11 +0000 http://usbappz.com/2009/12/what-should-i-think-when-my-boyfriend/#comment-84678 If you had a break from each other, did you talk about seeing other people. If you did you sohould be able to tell each other the truth. I belibve that he is not telling you the truth because is not able to let this person go or he has not told her about you. The decision is now yours wheather you can trust him. If you had a break from each other, did you talk about seeing other people. If you did you sohould be able to tell each other the truth. I belibve that he is not telling you the truth because is not able to let this person go or he has not told her about you. The decision is now yours wheather you can trust him.

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