I used to have a lot of trouble meeting girls until I got out a little bit more and started using the internet and myspace and stuff… And often times there are numerous girls who I know and they all seem to be interested in me and they’ll get on and chat and stuff, and they’ll tell me they don’t have a b/f but they are interested in me.
At the same time, I go to church and other places where I go and I meet women who are somewhat older than the girls I talk to on the internet, and they are mature women.
And I sorta date all of them. Thing is, I don’t feel guilty about doing this. I think each one feels that she is the only girl I am talking and interested in to at the particular time, but it is still more/less on a friendship level and rarely goes beyond that…
I know I am leading them all doing this… but who am I to say that they aren’t all doing the same things to me while I am not looking? I have never had sex with any of them, I just date them and stuff.
Is this bad?
It’s only bad if they find out.
Plus you said it yourself, you guys are all just really close friends. Unless boundaries are drawn that you and one of the girls should exclusively see each other, you shouldn’t feel bad for what you’re doing—they can’t get mad at you.
ps. I don’t think you’re considered a pimp unless you sleep with a few of them, or at least whore them out to other men.
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It’s not bad, partner….You don’t have a serious relationship with any of them. Do ur thing and have fun.
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playa playa!!!! just do u. just keep doing u and when u find one that u like just cut the other off.
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Technicaly being a pimp means that you profit from prostitution. As for the rest, if you can get away with it, do as Nike says – just do it.
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If you are keeping it real from the jumpstart and not leading these ladies on under false pretenses, then that’s just havin game, now if these ladies still wanna kick it with you after the fact, not to mention them buying you things with or without you asking, then that’s big pimpin!!
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