There is this beautiful and very pretty girl that is on myspace and she added me about a month ago, I'm intrested in having a realtionship with her, how can i start a conversation with her ? Can anyone please give me some tips & advice ?
How can i start a conversation with a girl i’m intrested thats on myspace ?
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I met my husband on Myspace! lol He started by commenting sweet things on my pictures. But I was at a bitter break up with an ex. So I never paid much attention to the comments. I said thanks, but that was pretty much it. Then once the break up with my ex was about 4-5 months past he sent me a message that said, "Hey stranger!" and I felt bad, like a neglectful friend. And we just started talking. After a while we decided to meet up to catch a movie and it went from there.
Just be persistent but not too stalker-ish lol. It's a very fine line! So be careful….and Good Luck!
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just casually comment her with something like "whats up"or "i haven't talked to you in forever" or "i don't think we ever talked" and once she responds ask her for her s/n
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Just say "hey" like you would always do. Maybe after a while ask questions ( but not too many and be a stalker!) haha. Once you guys have a good relationship go ahead and ask her what she thinks about a relationship
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comment her picture!!!!
and ask her how shes spending her weekend
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Just ask a question or say hello. You shouldnt need anything fancy or well though to be able to speak with her.
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read this:
You need to advance slowly- Remember you simply can not be direct on the topic of sex therefore you need to advance slowly. Never rush things too soon otherwise you might spoil your chances even before you realize it. Start with asking her simple questions about relationships and what sort of men she normally tends to prefer.
Ask her about her previous dates- Than advance and ask her about the dates she's been on and what she most liked and disliked about them. Than slowly advance to the topic of kissing and ask her how many guys she has kissed and how she prefers to be kissed. Remember this is where you need to study her response, If she is ready for this conversation she would have no problems with discussing this. But if you witness her getting a bit uneasy quickly change the topic and talk about something else.
Talk about her fantasies- Once you see she is ok with the sensual topic simply strike the question about her secret fantasies and what she likes and dislikes. Once you get the flow going you would instantly see her drawn into your conversation and at this situation she would be open to get into bed with you any instant depending on what moves you make and how you take it from here.
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Someone got my attention this way:
"I don't usually say something like this but I just had to tell you that you have the prettiest eyes I've ever seen. Although you are very beautiful it takes more than looks to capture my attention and I also wanted you to know that I find your ____ (something specific on her myspace page) very interesting. I know you have to be super careful on the net here but I am hoping you may consider giving me the opportunity to get to know you. You can get to know a little about me if you want by going to _____.)"
I was charmed by his honesty and soft approach letting me make the first move.
One thing I have learned in life so far is, if you let fear stop you from taking an action your heart is wanting to take, you pay the consequence of living with regret. That stinks!
Go for it. The very worst that can happen is that she will not be interested, which will be her loss. I'm sure you are a prize. You only want to be with someone who sees and appreciates that prize!
Hope this helped.
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just talk caually dont sound tough just be who you really are. isf you you know her well aslk her about how everythings going etc…
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